Friday, March 18, 2016

Most people get married believing a myth that marriage is a beautiful box full of things they have longed for; companionship, intimacy, friendship, etc.The truth is that marriage at the start is an empty box. You must put something in before you can take anything out.There is no love in marriage. Love is in people. And people put love in marriage. There is no romance in marriage. You have to infuse it into your marriage.A couple must learn the art and form the habit of giving, loving, serving, praising, of keeping the box full. If you take out more than you put in, the box will be empty.
Every relationship has its problems. But what makes it perfect is when you still want to be there when everything sucks
Every girl need someone who is prepared for:
-A million questions
-Uncontrollable laughter
-My family
-My appetite
-Musical outbursts
-Random dancing
-My friends
-Sad/Happy tears
-Deep talks
-My imagination
-My dreams
-Walks in the rain
-Random texts
-Useless arguments
-and acceptance of the real me.
“I thought about adults. I wondered if that was true: if they were all really children wrapped in adult bodies...”
― Neil Gaiman
“Acknowledge your inner child. Even though we have found the light in ourselves today, we sometimes forget to heal old wounds of our past. Your inner child still needs to be loved in order to heal the complete self.”
― Karen A. Baquiran
“Laugh, even when you feel too sick or too worn out or tired.
Smile, even when you're trying not to cry and the tears are blurring your vision.
Sing, even when people stare at you and tell you your voice is crappy.
Trust, even when your heart begs you not to.
Twirl, even when your mind makes no sense of what you see.
Frolick, even when you are made fun of. Kiss, even when others are watching. Sleep, even when you're afraid of what the dreams might bring.
Run, even when it feels like you can't run any more.
And, always, remember, even when the memories pinch your heart. Because the pain of all your experience is what makes you the person you are now. And without your experience---you are an empty page, a blank notebook, a missing lyric. What makes you brave is your willingness to live through your terrible life and hold your head up high the next day. So don't live life in fear. Because you are stronger now, after all the crap has happened, than you ever were back before it started.”
― Alysha Speer
“Being heartbroken doesn’t mean you stop feeling. Just the opposite — it means you feel it all more.
With your heart in fragments, every sensation is sharper, every emotion more acute. Your feelings are enhanced, like a blind man with an impeccable sense of smell, or a deaf woman whose eyes can perceive things a normal person would never recognize.
The broken hearted are the best empaths of all.”
― Julie Johnson